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Safety and Consent for Kids and Teens with Autism or Special Needs

Safety and Consent for Kids and Teens with Autism or Special Needs

Debra Jacobs

(2018)

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Abstract

The developmental challenges of children with special needs means they are often more at risk of physical or emotional exploitation. This book provides invaluable tools to help parents, carers and teachers protect vulnerable children. Difficult topics are sensitively and straightforwardly addressed through step-by-step guidelines for parents and learning activities for children.

Guidance to carers includes information on how to identify warning signs of abuse, and recognise tell-tale behaviour changes in their child. Intervention activities help children learn which adults to trust and how to stay safe, while reducing the fear, shame or stigma surrounding abuse. Aimed at ages 5-12, these learning devices have been specifically designed to meet a range of comprehension and developmental abilities, with instructions for parents to adapt them to meet the specific needs of their child.

This important guidebook empowers adults to fulfil their responsibility to protect and support children, and to provide a safe environment in which every child can reach their highest potential free from coercion or abuse.


Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Safety and Consent for Kids and Teens with Autism or Special Needs 3
Contents 7
Acknowledgements 9
Notes on the text 11
Chapter 1 - Introduction 13
Preventing the molestation of children with special needs 15
Understanding friendship and acts of kindness 17
Behavioral signs of molestation/abuse 20
Be proactive 29
What to do if you suspect molestation/abuse 37
Use of this book 40
Chapter 2 - Friendship 41
What is friendship? 41
Learning social skills 42
Learning personal boundaries 44
Learning what to do when others are not acting as a friend 49
Good examples and positive environments 51
Learning about when and when not to keep secrets 54
Skills for making friends and being a friend 56
How to know if someone is or is not a friend 66
Chapter 3 - Healthy and Expected Behavior of Family and Friends 73
Providing care 73
Preventing molestation/abuse 75
Expected behavior at home 93
Expected behavior in public 95
Expected behavior in a medical setting 98
Expected behavior in general, across many settings 99
Different kinds of touch 101
Chapter 4 - Body Awareness and Life Skills 103
Learning opportunities 103
Understanding the difference between public and private activities 104
The concept of boundaries 105
Bathing protocols 106
Dressing protocols 110
Grooming protocols 115
Toilet-use protocols 116
Adolescence 121
Chapter 5 - Who to Tell and How to Tell 129
First steps 129
Getting help 130
The first visit to the advocacy center 131
After the examination 136
Legal action 138
Protective custody 138
Family 139
Chapter 6 - Personal Empowerment 143
Listening 143
Teaching empowerment 145
Assertiveness 146
Privacy and learning to say “No!” 148
Consistent modeling of appropriate behavior 153
Maintaining privacy and increasing personal power 155
Choices 155
Self-esteem and developing competence 162
Experiences to provide success 167
Encouraging independence enhances self-esteem 171
Creating experiences of success 173
A List of Alternative Pronunciations 177
Resources Guide 181
References and Further Reading 185
Index 187
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