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All About Me

All About Me

Andrew Miller

(2018)

Abstract

Based on direct work with over 250 individual children, Andrew Miller wrote this book in order to provide parents and professionals with information, tools and guidance to help introduce children to autism in the absence of specialist support. This in-depth guide describes the practicalities of disclosure, including when to tell, who should do it and what they need to know beforehand with strategies to tailor your approach as every child's experience will be different. Step-by-step instructions detail how to deliver the programme and produce with a child a personalised booklet containing information about their personal attributes and their autism.

These booklets and follow-up material help make disclosure a positive and constructive experience for everyone. Accompanying material can be downloaded online including questionnaires, examples of children's booklets and flexible templates.


This fantastic 'how to' book takes adults step by step through the process of telling a child about their autism diagnosis. Written by an author who clearly has a lot of experience in this area, it is sensitively and reassuringly done, and includes lots of the simple, positive, neurodiverse language.
Davida Hartman, Senior educational psychologist, lecturer, trainer and author specialising in autism

The book is divided into two parts, with the first focusing on preparations to deliver the programme and the second on providing an overview of its teaching methods and introducing the associated electronic resources... There is detailed information about delivering the All About Me programme, that is influenced by the work of recognized experts in this field, and Miller explains the steps to supporting children in the process of completing an editable computer template to produce a unique narrative about themselves and their autism, rather than a generic social story.
There are links in the book to on-line resources and sample and templates booklets are available for download, along with additional resources and questionnaires.


SEN Magazine
If you're asking, "How do I tell children and young people on the autism spectrum about their diagnosis?" this book is key. Andrew Miller has created a brilliant step by step guide with supporting resources to help make this a positive experience for all involved. This programme was invaluable to my own work and this book is highly recommended.
Suzanne Goddard, Advisory Teacher for Autism
Andrew Miller has worked as an autism advisory teacher in London for 12 years and as an assistant head teacher at a special school for children with autism.

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
All About Me - A Step-by-Step Guide to TellingChildren and Young People on theAutism Spectrum about their Diagnosis, by Andrew Miller 3
Acknowledgements 11
Part I - Getting ready to deliver the programme - considerations, decisions and preparation 13
Chapter 1 - Introduction 15
1.1 Opening remarks 15
1.2 Terms and definitions used in this book 16
1.3 How All About Me came about 20
1.4 A short description of All About Me and what it intends to do 22
1.5 Who All About Me can be used with 24
1.6 An overview of the book 24
1.7 Research into the effectiveness of All About Me 28
Chapter 2 - Arguments for and against telling children about their autism 31
2.1 Introduction 31
2.2 A brief review of the literature surrounding individuals’ responses to finding out about their autism diagnosis, or having it withheld 32
2.3 Potential benefits of disclosing a child’s diagnosis 36
2.4 Potential risks of disclosing a child’s diagnosis 42
2.5 Potential risks of withholding a child’s diagnosis 48
2.6 Conclusion 52
Chapter 3 - The pre-programme work 54
3.1 Introduction 54
3.2 Deciding when a child should be told about their autism and identifying if they are ready 55
3.3 Identifying whether parents are ready for their child to be told, and how professionals can help them reach this stage 58
3.4 How to identify when the professionals are ready to tell the child 65
3.5 Deciding who should lead the work and who else might need to be involved 67
3.6 Gathering and sharing essential information about the child 71
3.7 Criteria for deciding whether All About Me would be suitable for a child 76
3.8 Deciding where the work should take place: identifying and preparing the right environment 78
3.9 Deciding when the work should take place: choosing the right time for the sessions 82
3.10 Deciding how to present the work to the child 83
3.11 Conclusion 84
Part II - Teaching and following up All About Me 87
Chapter 4 - An overview of the programme’s teaching methods, content and framework 89
4.1 Introduction 89
4.2 The programme’s design and teaching methods 90
4.3 A brief overview of the programme content and framework 98
Chapter 5 - Teaching Session 1: Creating the context for disclosing the child’s diagnosis 103
5.1 Introduction 103
5.2 Teaching and learning objectives for Session 1 105
5.3 Required resources 105
5.4 Introducing the child to All About Me 110
5.5 Introducing Session 1 113
5.6 Stage 1: Exploring the child on the outside 117
5.7 Stage 2: Exploring the child as a person on the inside 121
5.8 Stage 3: Exploring and identifying the child’s areas of strength 129
5.9 Stage 4: Identifying the child’s challenges 138
5.10 Session summary: What we learned today 145
5.11 Assessing the session and deciding how to proceed 147
Chapter 6 - Teaching Sessions 2 and 3: Disclosing and explaining the child’s diagnosis 150
6.1 Introduction 150
6.2 Teaching and learning objectives 151
6.3 Preparing for Session 2 152
6.4 The final pre-disclosure meeting with the child’s parents 157
6.5 Introducing the child to Session 2 157
6.6 Stage 5: ‘I have autism’ (disclosing the diagnosis) 160
6.7 Stage 6: other people with autism 165
6.8 Stage 7: Explaining autism to the child 168
6.9 Stage 8: Informing the child about their support network 177
6.10 Stage 9: Autism and special interests 180
6.11 Stage 10: ‘Who am I?’ 182
6.12 Monitoring and supporting the child between Sessions 2 and 3 183
6.13 Making the booklet in preparation for Session 3 184
6.14 Session 3: Revision and assessment session 185
6.15 Addressing key issues that can occur and persist across Sessions 2 and 3 188
6.16 Summary 193
Chapter 7 - Differentiating All About Me to make it accessible to more children 195
7.1 Introduction 195
7.2 Meeting individual children’s cognitive, communication and literacy needs 196
7.3 Strategies for including children with behavioural issues 206
7.4 Conclusion 214
Chapter 8 - What next? 215
8.1 Introduction 215
8.2 Continuing the processes of teaching children about their autism and helping them learn to understand and live with their diagnosis 216
8.3 Developing a child’s engagement with their school work, support, and planning for the future 222
8.4 Sharing the diagnosis with siblings, other family members and friends 227
8.5 Informing school staff and other professionals about a child’s diagnosis 230
8.6 Sharing a child’s diagnosis with their classmates 232
8.7 Proving to the child that it is okay to have autism 239
Chapter 9 - A brief guide to the electronic resources 241
9.1 Introduction 241
9.2 Section A: Pre-programme information-gathering and recording forms 241
9.3 Section B: Example All About Me booklets 243
9.4 Section C: All About Me booklet templates 244
9.5 Section D: Teaching and learning prompts 246
9.6 Section E: Resources for follow-up initiatives 246
References 248
Bibliography for the electronic resources 253
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