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Nurturing Attachments Training Resource

Nurturing Attachments Training Resource

Kim Golding

(2013)

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Abstract

Nurturing Attachments Training Resource is a complete group-work programme containing everything you need to run training and support sessions for adoptive parents and foster or kinship carers. Based on attachment theory and developed by expert author and trainer Kim Golding, this rich resource provides an authoritative set of ideas for therapeutically parenting children along with all the guidance you will need to implement the training.

The training resource includes theoretical content and process notes for facilitators, and a range of activities supported by online downloadable content with photocopiable reflective diary sheets, activity sheets and handouts. It is structured into 3 modules with 6 sessions per module. Module 1: Provides an understanding of attachment theory, patterns of attachment and an introduction to therapeutic parenting. Module 2: Introduces the House Model of Parenting, providing guidance on how to help the children experience the family as a secure base. Module 3: Continues exploring the House Model of Parenting, with consideration of how parents can both build a relationship with the children and manage their behaviour.

This will be an invaluable resource and one-stop guide for any professionals involved in training foster carers and adoptive parents, as well as residential child care workers and kinship carers.


I am thrilled to be able to highly recommend Kim Golding's latest book Nurturing Attachments Training Resource to those providing professional services to adoptive parents and carers of traumatized children with attachment difficulties. This highly readable work presents in detail Kim's group training program for adoptive parents and carers that she has used for a number of years. Kim presents clearly the three modules (each involving six sessions) that make up the training and includes handouts and other materials that can be copied and utilized. She presents the key components of the group process itself as well as supportive research to demonstrate the effectiveness of the program.

Kim's comprehensive and creative work will also be of great benefit to professionals in the development of their own knowledge of raising children and youth impacted by trauma and attachment problems. Professionals may also use these materials to guide their interventions with individual families. Finally, adoptive parents and carers may also find this work of help when facing the unique struggles they encounter in their efforts to provide good care to their vulnerable children.

In short, I am certain that Kim's work will contribute greatly to our efforts both to understand the care that these children need as well as to guide their parents and carers in their efforts to provide such care. We will all experience much gratitude to Kim for Nurturing Attachments Training Resource in the years ahead.


Daniel A. Hughes, Ph.D., President of the Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute, Pennsylvania, USA
Kim S. Golding is a clinical psychologist who works in Worcestershire, England where she was influential in the founding of the Integrated Service for Looked After Children - a multi-agency, holistic service providing support for foster, adoptive and residential parents, schools and the range of professionals supporting children growing up in care or in adoptive families. Kim was trained and mentored by Dan Hughes in the use of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP). She is on the board of the Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Institute supporting the use of DDP in Europe, USA and Canada. She accredits and trains professionals in the approach in the UK and has been invited to speak about this work internationally. Kim is author of Nurturing Attachments: Supporting Children who are Fostered and Adopted; co-author with Dan Hughes of Creating Loving Attachments: Parenting with PACE to Nurture Confidence and Security in the Troubled Child; and lead author of two observational checklists designed for use in educational settings, Observing Children with Attachment Difficulties in Preschool Settings (for children aged 0-4) and Observing Children with Attachment Difficulties in School (for children aged 5-11). All these titles are available from Jessica Kingsley Publishers.
Foster carers and adoptive parents can make bringing up children and young people with complex needs and helping them feel part of their new families appear effortless, but my experience of working with some of the best shows that it's far from easy. I welcome any resource that supports carers to do this well. This material, from an author with a great deal of knowledge about the tasks involved, and with its focus on what they can do and everyday strategies which will make a difference, is very welcome.
Dr Andrea Warman, social care research, policy and development consultant, UK
In Nurturing Attachments Kim Golding explores parenting children who have attachment and trauma-related difficulties in a theoretically sound manner. Golding's work will be a valuable resource for anyone facilitating parent education/support groups. This programme will not only help its users develop a comprehensive understanding of the complexities that exist in the relationships they have with their children, but also show how they can use this understanding to transform these relationships. Golding has done a masterful job at integrating theory with a practicality that will enable parents to feel more effective in their parenting roles.
Gregory C. Keck, Ph.D., Founder/Director of the Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio, USA, Co-author of Adopting the Hurt Child (2009), Parenting the Hurt Child (2002), and author of Parenting Adopted Adolescents (2009)

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Nurturing Attachments Training Resource by Kim S. Golding 2
Introduction 16
Development of the Group Work Programme 17
What is New in the Nurturing Attachments Training Resource? 18
General Guidance for Running the Nuturing Attachments Group 20
Group members 20
Group process 21
Self-disclosure 22
Running the group and a typical session 22
Training methods 24
Content 26
Use of handouts and reflection diaries 27
Venue and refreshments 28
Ending the group work programme 28
Working with challenges 28
Reference list of commercially available recordings relevant for the group work programme 31
Summary of the Evidence Base for the Programme 34
Pilot group, Worcestershire, England (Golding and Picken 2004) 34
North East of England (Laybourne, Andersen and Sands 2008) 34
Oxford, England (Gurney-Smith et al. 2010) 35
Second evaluation in Worcester, England (Wassall 2011) 35
Windsor and Maidenhead, England (Green 2011) 35
Module One. Attachment Theory and Therapeutic Parenting 38
Session One. Introduction to Attachment Theory 40
Session aims 40
Theoretical content 41
Activities 47
Process notes 48
Session Two. Introduction to Patterns of Attachment and the Organised Patterns 56
Session aims 56
Theoretical content 56
Activities 65
Process notes 66
Session Three. The Disorganised Pattern of Attachment and Developmental Trauma 74
Session aims 74
Theoretical content 75
Activities 81
Process notes 83
Session Four. Parenting and Attachment Patterns 92
Session aims 92
Theoretical content 93
Activities 100
Process notes 102
Session Five. Emotional Regulation, Mentalisation and Developing Mind-mindedness 108
Session aims 108
Theoretical content 109
Activities 114
Process notes 117
Session Six 124
Session Six. Therapeutic Parenting 124
Session aims 124
Theoretical content 125
Activities 130
Process notes 131
Module Two. The House Model of Parenting – Providing a Secure Base 138
Session One. Creating a Secure Base 140
Session aims 140
Theoretical content 141
Activities 148
Process notes 150
Session Two. Empathy and Support from the Secure Base 158
Session aims 158
Theoretical content 159
Activities 165
Process notes 167
Session Three. Using Attunement to Increase Empathy 176
Session aims 176
Theoretical content 177
Activities 181
Process notes 182
Session Four. Protecting the Family Atmosphere 192
Session aims 192
Theoretical content 193
Activities 194
Process notes 196
Session Five. Creating a Feeling of Belonging for the Child 204
Session aims 204
Theoretical content 205
Activities 208
Process notes 209
Session Six. Looking after Yourself 218
Session aims 218
Theoretical content 219
Activities 225
Process notes 226
Module Three. The House Model of Parenting – Building Relationships and Managing Behaviour 234
Session One. Helping the Child with Relationships 236
Session aims 236
Theoretical content 237
Activities 245
Process notes 247
Session Two. Parenting with PACE 256
Session aims 256
Theoretical content 257
Activities 261
Process notes 263
Session Three. Providing Structure and Supervision 270
Session aims 270
Theoretical content 271
Activities 274
Process notes 275
Session Four. Managing Confrontation and Coercive Interactions 282
Session aims 282
Theoretical content 283
Activities 290
Process notes 291
Session Five. Managing Behaviour whilst Maintaining a Secure Base 298
Session aims 298
Theoretical content 299
Activities 307
Process notes 308
Session Six. Managing Behaviours with PACE 318
Session aims 318
Theoretical content 319
Activities 324
Process notes 326
References 334
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