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Positive Communication

Positive Communication

Robin Dynes

(2017)

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Abstract

The effects of social interaction and engagement with older people have been proven to considerably improve quality of life and emotional wellbeing. This book comes packed with ready-to-use activities for groups of older people, aimed at connecting individuals, developing their self-esteem, and encouraging personal expression and independence.

The activities are intended to be led by facilitators working with groups of older people in residential homes, drop-in or day centres, hospices, clubs for older people, hospitals, or support groups. The activities range from creative arts to storytelling to sports, and are all designed to keep both bodies and minds sharp, while encouraging positive relationships with others.


Robin Dynes is a counsellor and freelance writer who has worked as a Social Inclusion Officer for Skills and Learning. Robin developed an outreach curriculum to meet the needs of people with disabilities, older people and other vulnerable people.
Clear instructions and astute choice of activities will ensure that care workers have the means to make real positive enhancements to the lives of older people in their care.
Danny Walsh, Senior Lecturer, University of Lincoln, UK
As modern technology and medicine increases life span and the potential for social isolation, Dynes' Positive Communication, offers a timely, creative and motivational lifeline. Designed for group facilitators and older adults, it addresses important communication and well-being issues, in helpful and practical ways.
Marylyn Cropley, www.freeplay.1me.net

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Positive Communication: Activities to Reduce Isolation and Improve the Wellbeing of Older Adults 7
Thanks and Acknowledgements 11
Introduction 13
Identifying Strengths, Interests, Hopes and Dreams: Activities to Maintain a Positive Outlook 19
The Benefits of Staying Active 20
Making Changes to Stay Active 23
Handout: Making Changes to Stay Active 24
Creating a Bliss List 27
Having a Goal 29
Handout: Having a Goal 30
Roles and Skills 31
Handout: Roles and Skills 33
A Snapshot of Me 34
Where I Want to Be 35
Handout: Where I Want to Be 36
Living Your Imaginary Life 37
I Am the Person Who… 38
Difficult Topics: Activities to help discuss topics which can be difficult to talk about 39
Negative and Positive Thoughts and Feelings 40
Overcoming the Stigma of Daily Living Aids 42
Acknowledging Feelings 44
Handout: Acknowledging Feelings 46
Feeling Safe 48
Clarifying My End-of-Life Wishes 49
Handout: Clarifying My End-of-Life Wishes 50
Hidden Feelings 52
Throw Your Worries Away 54
Asking for Help 55
Handout: Asking for Help 57
Making Decisions 58
A Problem Shared 59
Creativity: Activities to maintain creative abilities 61
Story in a Bag 62
Fortunately/Unfortunately 63
Proverbs 65
True or False 66
Seeing the Funny Side of Life 67
Make Up a Story 68
Handout: Make Up a Story 69
Matching Interests and Skills 70
Solve That Problem 71
Story Endings 72
Scenes from Life 73
Our Magazine 74
Communication: Activities to support and improve communication skills 75
What Quality of Life Means for Me 76
Starting Conversations 78
Picture Charades 80
Talking Stick 81
Improving Listening Skills 82
Let’s Talk 84
Sketches 85
Showing Consideration and Respect 86
It’s the Way I Say It 88
Similes 90
Overcoming Communication Barriers 91
Handout: Overcoming Communication Barriers 92
Memory: Activities to help with memory 95
Current Affairs 96
This Is My Life 97
Getting Organised 98
Handout: Getting Organised 99
Using External Reminders 101
Remember This… 103
Memory Concerns 105
Handout: Memory Concerns 106
Name That Person 108
What Do You Remember? 109
Kim’s Game 110
Mental Walk 111
An Experience to Remember 112
Spirituality: Activities focusing on spiritual wellbeing 113
Feeling Productive 114
Handout: Feeling Productive 116
What Is Important in Life 117
My Values and Beliefs 119
Handout: My Values and Beliefs 121
Inside and Outside 122
Improving Mind and Spirit 123
Life Focus 125
Handout: Life Focus 126
Connecting with Nature 128
A Guide from the Past 130
Social Communication: Activities purely for fun, enjoyment and socialising 131
A Perfect Day 132
Pet Hates 133
Musical Games 134
Earth, Air, Fire and Water 135
Making Connections 136
Information Share 137
Handout: Information Share 138
Who Is It? 139
Secrets 140
Lists 141
Favourite Things 143
Writing: Activities using writing for health and wellbeing 145
Memory Stimulation 146
Unsent Letters 147
With These Hands 149
About Me 150
Dear Future Me 151
Writing Springboards 153
Clustering 154
Conflicts 155
Influences 157
Gratitude Letters 158
Remaining Active: Activities to encourage physical movement 159
Mime 160
Ball Game 161
Fun Exercise 162
Obstacle Course 163
Walk This Way 164
What’s This? 165
Moving to the Rhythm of the Music 166
Mirror on the Wall 167
Building Confidence: Activities to help retain confidence and \na positive self-image 169
Positive Notes 170
What Makes Me Feel Good? 171
Achievements 173
My Qualities 175
Being Positive 176
Gratitude 178
Positive Hands 179
Maintaining Self-Esteem 180
Confidence Messages 181
How Do You See Yourself? 182
Handout: How Do You See Yourself? 183
Responding to Situations 184
Handout: Responding to Situations 185
Reminiscence: Activities to aid reminiscence 187
Memories in a Bag 188
Musical Memories 189
Time of Life 190
Raising a Family 191
Notable Events 192
Powerful Places 194
Smells in My Life 195
Handout: Smells in My Life 196
My Life in a Bag 197
Voices 199
The Good Stuff 200
Memory Improvisations 202
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