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Words that Touch

Words that Touch

Nicholas Pole

(2017)

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Abstract

In this practical guide, Nick Pole explains the philosophy and practice of Clean Language, a simple and highly effective way to facilitate mind/body communication in bodywork therapy. He explains how to use language to get to the heart of a client's physical problem, to engage the mind in the process of the body, and to create somatic change.

Words that Touch provides compelling theoretical explanations and practical case studies to describe the importance of language and relationships in the practice of mind/body therapies. Practitioners of yoga, shiatsu, acupuncture, physiotherapy, The Feldenkrais Technique and more will find the guide transformative in increasing the connection with clients and developing their practice through language.


Nick Pole has written an important and convincing book. Spoken language and body language have drifted apart. Words that Touch introduces how to make dialogue an integral part of bodywork. Without any doubt many therapists and teachers of bodywork will find inspiration and practical guidance in it.
Peter den Dekker, Chi Kung instructor, acupuncturist and author of The Dynamics of Standing Still
I had the sense as I was reading, that I was sitting at the feet of a great teacher: the body. Words That Touch provides an insightful, clear and practical guide for accessing somatic intelligence. A profoundly helpful book.
Rosalie Dores, mindfulness teacher, supervisor & trainer
For all their skills in working with the body and its energies, few complementary practitioners pay careful attention to the language they use with their patients. With the help of this clear and compelling book they will be better able to practise the mind body medicine which they espouse.
John Hamwee, acupuncturist and author of Zero Balancing, Intuitive Acupuncture and Acupuncture for New Practitioners
Nick has produced this excellent book presenting his approach. It provides not only a clear and concise introduction to the world of Clean Language - and how it links with bodywork - but it also provides clear references to the theory behind this way of working. I felt the book to be an excellent introduction and guide to both the practical use and the theory of Clean Language and 'how to ask questions your body can answer'.
Adan Hellinger MRSS(T)
Shiatsu Society Journal
Nick Pole has been a mind-body therapist for over 25 years, and discovered Clean Language after training in shiatsu and NLP. Nick is based in London.
Might be the best book on Clean Language so far...The practical examples are excellent, with transcripts that aren't boring or baffling. It provides a fascinating insight into how Nick thinks, as a shiatsu practitioner.
Judy Rees
JudyRees.co.uk
Words that Touch gently balances the Ying and Yang of language and body, theory and practice with hundreds of stories, examples and personal anecdotes. Nick Pole's delightful book shows how Clean Language questions can transcend technique to become a way of being with another person's body and mind.
James Lawley & Penny Tompkins, authors of Metaphors in Mind: Transformation through Symbolic Modelling
Nicholas Pole offers bodyworkers a new skill in this clear and elegant book, showing that the words we use directly affect our clients' Qi as much as our touch. With simple "clean" questions we can help them reach into and resolve the origin of their own condition. A valuable resource.
Carola Beresford-Cooke, author of Shiatsu Theory and Practice and co-founder of the Shiatsu College UK
At first read, I felt this book about the concept of clean language would be one I would refer to as and when I needed. But once I understood it more, I was hooked. I found it was well written and free flowing. I can see that it will give empowerment to clients during treatment sessions and beyond.
Gillian Vincent, MFHT
International Therapist, Autumn 2017
Nick Pole offers great techniques that can transform a consultation, making it easier for a client to be clearer about what they want. Some great case examples contextualise theory in practice, and the book makes for an informative and interesting read.
David Feakes, MFHT
International Therapist, Autumn 2017
Nick Pole has performed a real service by showing how Clean Language is something everyone can use. It is a pleasure to see my late friend David Grove's work receiving such practical explication and application. This is a how-to manual suitable for anyone who wants to be better at working with the wisdom within each of us.
Ian McDermott, founder of International Teaching Seminars and UKCP certified psychotherapist

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Words That Touch – How To Ask Questions Your Body Can Answer by Nick Pole, Illustrations by Sophie Standing 5
Acknowledgements 12
Part 1 - The Basics 15
1. A Long Way from Yourself 17
2. Why Clean Language? 22
3. Keeping It Clean and Why It Matters 26
4. Three Clean Questions 32
5. Clean Questions for \na Cold Shoulder 41
6. Letting Your Body Answer Back 49
7. Mind, Matter and Metaphor 54
8. Embodied Language, Embodied Mind 60
9. How Does It Work and Where Does It Come From? 64
10. The 12 Core Clean Language Questions 69
11. The Client’s Goals: What Would You Like to Have Happen? 100
12. What Happens When You Ask the Outcome Question? 108
13. A Clean Conversation 117
14. A Clean Conversation: What Did You Learn? 128
Part 2 - The Theory 135
15, The Science behind Clean Language 137
16. Focusing the Mind on the Body 139
17. From Body to Brain 145
18. The Divided Brain 161
Part 3 - The Practice 179
3.1 Introduction\n\n• 181
19. How to Structure a Session 184
20. Sorting out the Rubik’s Cube 191
21. Exploring the Landscape 197
22. Taking Less of the Load 202
3.2 A Clean Approach \nto Trauma\n\n• 209
23. The Tidal Wave of Trauma 212
24. Angry Red Blotches 217
25. I Will Die Too 221
26. Dropping the Baby 231
3.3 Working with\nEmbodied Double Binds\n\n• 238
27. The Panther in the Cage 241
28. The Man Who Deserved to Die 255
29. The Root of the Problem that Causes the Pain 265
3.4 How Clean Should I Be?\n\n 283
30. Clean and the Therapeutic Relationship 285
31. Clean Touch 295
32. Approaching Childbirth with Clean Touch 312
3.5 Interviews with Practitioners Who Use Clean Language\n\n• 319
Clean Language \nand Acupuncture 320
CranioSacral Therapy 322
Clean Language and Yoga Nidra 324
Yoga and the Outcome Question 326
Physiotherapy with Clean Language 328
Teaching Tai Chi with Clean Questions 330
Homeopathy and Clean Language 332
Clean Language, Feldenkrais and Music 334
3.6 A Final Word\n\n 338
References 341
Index 345
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