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New Philosophies of Sex and Love

New Philosophies of Sex and Love

Sarah LaChance Adams | Christopher M. Davidson | Caroline R. Lundquist

(2016)

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Abstract

Our amorous and erotic experiences do not simply bring us pleasure; they shape our very identities, our ways of relating to ourselves, each other and our shared world. This volume challenges some of our most prevalent assumptions relating to identity, the body, monogamy, libido, sexual identity, seduction, fidelity, orgasm, and more. In twelve original and philosophically thought-provoking essays, the authors reflect on the broader meanings of love and sex: what their shifting historical meanings entail for us in the present; how they are constrained by social conventions; the ambiguous juxtaposition of agency and passivity that they reveal; how they shape and are formed by political institutions; the opportunities they present to resist the confines of gender and sexual orientation; how cultural artefacts can become incorporated into the body; and how love and sex both form and justify our ethical world views.

Ideal for students both in philosophy and gender studies, this highly readable book takes us to the very heart of two of the most important dimensions of human experience and meaning-making: to the seductive and alluring, confusing and frustrating, realms of love and sex.

The philosophies of sex and love in this anthology do, indeed, feel ‘new’. […] In summary, this is an excellent collection of essays for anyone interested in the philosophy of sex and love and/or feminism and gender issues more broadly. […] In addition, the bringing together of such a range of authors should be commended. Not only are 75% of the authors women, they also come from a range of countries (including Canada, America, Australia, Turkey and Sweden). Further, they represent a variety of academic backgrounds, including social work and psychology, as well as philosophy, and there is a good mix of early career researchers and those more established. Given the scope of the questions raised in the philosophy of sex and love, and the importance of them, it is wonderful to have such a variety of voices speaking about it in one place.


An eclectic and fascinating collection. Diverse perspectives and approaches are brought to bear on a broad range of issues concerning sex and love. The volume's aim is not to supply conclusive answers, definitions, or theories, but to draw attention to more (and subtler) questions, ideas, and possibilities. It is emphatically successful.
Carrie Jenkins, Professor of Philosophy, University of British Columbia
From a new reading of Plato’s understanding of erotic love to a scientific criticism of clichéd gender roles in heterosexual relationships, from a defence of polyamory to a discussion of the failed medicalization of feminine sexuality, there’s something in here for everyone: a refreshingly varied collection of essays on philosophical topics in sex and love.
Carol Hay, Associate Professor of Philosophy and Director of Gender Studies, University of Massachusetts Lowell
Sarah LaChance Adams is Associate Professor of Philosophy at the University of Wisconsin, Superior. Her previous publications include Coming to Life: Philosophies of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Mothering (co-edited with Caroline Lundquist, 2012) and Mad Mothers, Bad Mothers, and What a “Good” Mother Would Do: The Ethics of Ambivalence (2014).

Christopher M. Davidson is Assistant Professor at Ball State University.

Caroline R. Lundquist is a philosophy instructor at Lane Community College and at the University of Oregon. Her previous publications include Coming to Life: Philosophies of Pregnancy, Childbirth and Mothering (co-edited with Sarah LaChance Adams, 2012), and various articles in feminist philosophy and ethics.

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Cover Cover 1
Half Title i
Title Page iii
Copyright Page iv
Dedication v
Contents vii
Acknowledgments ix
Part I Desire’s Dissonance 1
Chapter One Introduction: Desire’s Dissonance 3
Part II Defining Desire 13
Chapter Two Finding and Then Losing Your Way: Eros and the Other in Greek Literature and Philosophy 15
The Myth 16
The Story 17
Angels and Demons 20
Sex and Sexuality 22
Tragedy and Comedy 26
Mortals and Immortals 26
Notes 29
Bibliography 33
Chapter Three Love, and a Romantic Living Room: Remarks for an Inquiry on Ordinary Love Today 35
Understanding an Understanding of Love 36
What Is a Living Room? Pros and Cons of a Minimal Definition 40
The Importance of Being Ordinary 42
Contemporary Patterns: Some Introductory Remarks 45
Concluding Remarks 49
Notes 50
Bibliography 56
Chapter Four Love at the Limit of Phenomenology (à la Sartre and Marion) 61
I. The Transcendental Question: How Does Love Appear? 61
II. Decentering Reflection: From Being to Event 64
III. Crossing, or: Not One but Two 70
IV. The Appearance of a World 75
Notes 77
Bibliography 82
Chapter Five Monogamism and Polyamorism: A Weberian Analysis 85
Ideal Types 85
Ideal Types of Monogamism and Polyamorism 87
Conclusion 94
Notes 96
Bibliography 97
Part III Sex, Love, and Agency 99
Chapter Six Friendless Women and the Myth of Male Nonage: Why We Need a Better Science of Love and Sex 101
Nose-Sprays, Norms, and Non-Agents: Ethical Failings of the Current Science of Monogamy 102
The Data: What We Are Given 102
Love, Sex, and Science Fiction 105
Telling a Different Story: The Science of Commitment 106
Defining Commitment 106
Choosing Commitment 110
Living Commitment: Restoring and Redistributing Agency in Monogamous Relationships 113
Notes 117
Bibliography 121
Chapter Seven The Revolutionary Politics of Love: Pussy Riot and Punk Rock as Feminist Practice 125
Feminist Love and Serious Activism 128
The Politics of the Erotic and Pussy Riot’s Project of Bringing Joy 129
Anger and Love 133
Conclusion 137
Postscript 138
Notes 139
Bibliography 141
Chapter Eight Paradox in Practice: What We Can Learn about Love from Relationships between Parents and Young Adult Children 145
Ontology 148
Epistemology 154
Conclusion 158
Notes 160
Bibliography 164
Part IV Embodiment and Culture 167
Chapter Nine Orchid Love 169
Notes 179
Bibliography 182
Chapter Ten Failed Medicalization and the Cultural Iconography of Feminine Sexuality 185
What is Medicalization and When Is It Appropriate? 188
Big Pharma and the Hard Phallus 191
Female Sexual Dysfunction: The State of the Science 193
The Failure of the Attempt to Medicalize Female Sexuality 194
Imagining Female Sexuality and the Myth of Feminine Mystery 196
Female Sexuality in the Scientific Imagination 198
Conclusion 202
Notes 205
Bibliography 207
Chapter Eleven Being Through Love: The Collaborative Construction of a Sexual Body 209
Introduction 210
Merleau-Ponty and the Sexual Body 212
Schneider 213
Normative Sexuality 215
Normative Bodies 216
Alternative Sexualities 218
The Event of Sexuality 219
Sex as Imaginative Play 220
“Passivity” in the Creation of Sexuality 221
Passing, Acceptance, and Love 224
IV. Conclusion 226
Notes 227
Bibliography 230
Part V Truth and Deception 233
Chapter Twelve The Power of Seduction 235
The Character of Sexual Communication 236
The Examination of Seduction in Plato’s Phaedrus: The Tale of Oreithuia 239
The Journey of Phaedrus 246
The Art of Seduction 248
The Dual Nature of Seduction 251
Notes 254
Bibliography 255
Chapter Thirteen Some Notes on Faking 257
Important Enough to Be Faked 258
A Sign of Success 259
Social Constitution of Bodies, Social Conditioning of Experience 261
Heteronormativity in the Cultural Signification of Orgasms 264
Faking Orgasms and the Loss of Playful Loving 268
Faking—the Good News 271
Notes 271
Bibliography 275
Index 279
About the Editors 287
About the Contributors 289