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Women, Sexuality and the Political Power of Pleasure
Susie Jolly | Andrea Cornwall | Kate Hawkins
(2013)
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Abstract
This pioneering collection explores the ways in which positive, pleasure-focused approaches to sexuality can empower women.
Gender and development has tended to engage with sexuality only in relation to violence and ill-health. Although this has been hugely important in challenging violence against women, over-emphasizing these negative aspects has dovetailed with conservative ideologies that associate women’s sexualities with danger and fear. On the other hand, the media, the pharmaceutical industry, and pornography more broadly celebrate the pleasures of sex in ways that can be just as oppressive, often implying that only certain types of people - young, heterosexual, able-bodied, HIV-negative - are eligible for sexual pleasure.
Women, Sexuality and the Political Power of Pleasure brings together challenges to these strictures and exclusions from both the South and North of the globe, with examples of activism, advocacy and programming which use pleasure as an entry point. It shows how positive approaches to pleasure and sexuality can enhance equality and empowerment for all.
Andrea Cornwall is professor in anthropology and development at the University of Sussex, where she is an affiliate of the Centre for the Study of Sexual Dissidence and director of the Pathways of Women’s Empowerment programme. As a teenager, she harboured a secret desire to be an agony aunt when she grew up, inspired by clandestine readings of her mother’s Cosmopolitan, but became an anthropologist instead, focusing much of her research on gender, sexuality, sex and relationships. Joining the Institute of Development Studies (IDS) as a fellow in 1998, she supported the emergence of work on sexuality and helped establish the Sexuality and Development Programme. She has published widely on gender and sexuality in development and is executive producer of Save us from Saviours, a short film on Indian sex workers’ challenge of the rescue industry.
Kate Hawkins is director of Pamoja Communications and a visiting fellow at the Institute of Development Studies (IDS). She has worked as a policy analyst and advocate on sexual and reproductive health and rights. With Susie Jolly, Andrea Cornwall and others, Kate has contributed to the Sexuality and Development Programme at IDS with a particular focus on how research influences policy and practice and the improvement of communication and knowledge exchange. Kate is on the Steering Committee of The Pleasure Project, an initiative which aims to make sex safer by addressing one of the major reasons people have sex: the pursuit of pleasure.
Susie Jolly is a hybrid activist/researcher/communicator/trainer and is currently also a donor. From her different positions she consistently seeks to challenge the ‘straitjacket’ of gender and sexuality norms that disempower so many people. She currently leads the Ford Foundation sexuality and reproductive health and rights grant-making programme in China. Previously, she founded and led the Sexuality and Development Programme at the Institute of Development Studies (IDS). She has had extensive engagement with gender and development issues internationally, with six years’ experience at the BRIDGE gender information unit, IDS, as well as a lifetime of feminist activism.
'This book's holistic approach to sexuality in various third-world contexts is enormously refreshing. Development discourses have yoked discussions of women's sexuality primarily to disease, risk, violence and reproduction. Transcending this narrow conceptualisation, the contributors raise the importance of embodied desires, agency and empowerment in both personal and social transformation. Case studies from such varied contexts as India, Malawi, Turkey and Uganda demonstrate that political struggles are inextricably connected to the relations, contestations, discourses and institutions surrounding sexuality. Avoiding the dangers of universalising models of resistance and understandings of sexuality, the book opens up innovative methodological, theoretical and political paths for new interdisciplinary work on women, gender and development.'
Desiree Lewis, University of the Western Cape
'This is one of those uncommon books which open up new perspectives on development. It pushes forward the frontiers of feminism, challenging convention and recognising pleasure as a right. Inclusively it embraces heterosexuals, LGBTQs, sex workers, the disabled, those who are HIV positive, those married to gay partners and others so often excluded. It confronts stereotypes and taboos with the grounded evidence of experiences, both awful and inspiring. The editors and contributors have remarkably produced a book with a new theme, putting sexual pleasure on the development agenda and presenting it in a manner that is at once sensitive, nuanced, and full of humanity. The result is a remarkable book, a gripping read, exhilarating and liberating in the way it celebrates pleasure, laughter and fun. We see pleasure as an empowering win-win. We are left wondering why sexual pleasure has only now come up in the development agenda. Development professionals: read, enjoy, be enlightened, and recognise women's sexual pleasure as a human right.'
Robert Chambers, University of Sussex
'This volume pulls the threads of sexual pleasure in a variety of directions as to charter connections and gaps between bodies, communities and discourses. Sexual pleasure is a domain of life, theory and research -- particularly in the case of female sexuality -- constantly torn between danger and jouissance, between objectification and empowerment. The editors and authors do not evade these minefields but rather address them as nodes to be de-constructed when articulating social, gender and erotic justice. The final result is also to be appraised as a rich, diverse and hybrid global South and North tapestry of live worlds and voices.'
Sonia Corrêa, Sexuality Policy Watch
'Finally women's pleasure is being taken seriously. What a relief! Women, Sexuality and the Political Power of Pleasure is a fantastic book, and will certainly be an important tool in creating a more pleasure-filled world, and isn't that what we all ultimately want? Highly intelligent, knowledgeable writers from the front lines of women's struggles from all corners of the globe make reading this collection of essays, well, deeply pleasurable, and extremely satisfying.'
Annie Sprinkle, author and co-founder of sexecology.org
Table of Contents
Section Title | Page | Action | Price |
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Feminisms and Development | i | ||
About the Editors | ii | ||
Title page | iii | ||
Copyright | iv | ||
Contents | v | ||
Abbreviations | vii | ||
Acknowledgements | viii | ||
Preface | ix | ||
Introduction | Women, Sexuality and the Political Power of Pleasure | 1 | ||
Why we need to talk about pleasure | 4 | ||
How to talk about pleasure | 7 | ||
Whose pleasure? | 10 | ||
How to work with pleasure | 13 | ||
How not to work on pleasure | 19 | ||
Pleasure and/as empowerment | 21 | ||
References | 24 | ||
1 | Thinking with Pleasure: Danger, Sexuality and Agency | 28 | ||
Telling stories, thinking with pleasure | 36 | ||
The erotic project: commissioning brief | 38 | ||
Conclusion | 40 | ||
References | 41 | ||
2 | Challenging the Pleasure versus Danger Binary: Reflections on Sexuality Workshops with Rural Women’s Rights Activists in North India | 42 | ||
Why women’s organizations are not engaging with sexuality in positive ways | 43 | ||
Brokering conversations about sexuality and pleasure | 45 | ||
Larger lessons from the programme | 52 | ||
Conclusion | 54 | ||
References | 57 | ||
3 | Sexual Pleasure as a Woman’s Human Right: Experiences from a Human Rights Training Programme for Women in Turkey | 58 | ||
Women’s voices: Childhood, Menstruation | 61 | ||
The Human Rights Education Programme for Women (HREP) | 63 | ||
Women and sexuality within the HREP | 66 | ||
Women’s voices: Lack of information/misinformation | 69 | ||
Women’s voices: Virginity, the hymen (‘membrane of girlhood’) and the\r\nfirst night of marriage | 71 | ||
Women’s voices: Pleasure | 73 | ||
Notes | 74 | ||
References | 75 | ||
4 | Better Sex and More Equal Relationships: Couple Training in Nigeria | 76 | ||
Studying women’s sexual pleasure | 77 | ||
The INCRESE Sexual Pleasure Project | 82 | ||
Lessons learnt | 88 | ||
Implications for programming for women’s health andrights | 90 | ||
References | 91 | ||
5 | Building a Movement for Sexual Rights and Pleasure | 93 | ||
Pink Space NGO: uniting marginalized sexual identities, organizing beyond identity politics | 95 | ||
An exchange between lesbians and women living with HIV: finding common ground | 98 | ||
Exchanges between gay men’s wives | 101 | ||
Developing an analysis: marriage normativity and compulsory heterosexuality | 103 | ||
How we worked with pleasure | 105 | ||
Conclusion | 109 | ||
Note | 110 | ||
Reference | 110 | ||
6 | Enabling Disabled People to Have and Enjoy the Kind of Sexuality They Want | 111 | ||
The context of our experience | 114 | ||
Defining sexuality and sexual health | 117 | ||
Valuing sexual pleasure and intimacy | 120 | ||
Importance of practitioner awareness | 121 | ||
Practitioner comfort, knowledge and skills | 123 | ||
Developing service policies | 125 | ||
The Recognition Model | 127 | ||
Table 6.1 The Recognition Model | 128 | ||
Sex work, surrogacy and the legal framework | 132 | ||
Conclusion | 135 | ||
Notes | 137 | ||
References | 138 | ||
7 | Desires Denied: Sexual Pleasure in the Context of HIV | 142 | ||
Women in their place: opposite sides of the same coin – forced sex and forced asexuality | 143 | ||
Belief systems, sex and women | 145 | ||
Influences of belief systems on the law | 149 | ||
Influences of belief systems on medicine and health care | 150 | ||
Medical traditions, scientific advances and the tyranny of belief systems | 150 | ||
Legal approaches to asexuality of women with HIV | 153 | ||
Consequences of these policies and practices for women with HIV | 155 | ||
Human rights: reframing the medical and legal landscape | 156 | ||
Acknowledgements | 158 | ||
Notes | 158 | ||
References | 160 | ||
8 | Sex is a Gift from God: Paralysis and Potential in Sex Education in Malawi | 161 | ||
Scaring the desire out of them: secular initiatives | 162 | ||
Sex is a gift from God: the potentials of faith-based prevention | 169 | ||
Conclusion: possible alliances? | 178 | ||
Acknowledgements | 180 | ||
Notes | 180 | ||
References | 181 | ||
9 | Why We Need to Think about Sexuality and Sexual Well-Being: Addressing Sexual Violence in Sub-Saharan Africa | 184 | ||
Strange bedfellows? Sexual violence, sexuality, sexual well-being | 185 | ||
Discourses and their discontents | 186 | ||
Sexuality and sexual well-being: arguments for keeping them in the conversation | 190 | ||
Final thoughts | 195 | ||
Note | 197 | ||
References | 197 | ||
10 | Could Watching Porn Increase Our Expectations of (Safe) Pleasure? An Exploration of Some Promising Harm-Reduction Practices | 200 | ||
What is pornography? | 201 | ||
What if porn is inherently bad? | 202 | ||
Pornography is big business | 203 | ||
People learn about sexuality from pornography | 205 | ||
Hooking into the power of pleasure | 208 | ||
Condom use in pornographic films | 213 | ||
Pornography that highlights what the mainstream overlooks | 217 | ||
A future research agenda? | 222 | ||
Conclusion: bridging the pleasure divide | 223 | ||
Notes | 224 | ||
References | 224 | ||
11 | Challenging Clitoraid | 229 | ||
Reparative surgery for FGM/C: does it exist? | 230 | ||
Investigating Clitoraid | 233 | ||
Support for Clitoraid: Betty Dodson and Good Vibrations | 235 | ||
Asking critical questions | 237 | ||
The role of social media | 239 | ||
The Raelians respond | 241 | ||
Catching up on Clitoraid: where are we now? (Summer 2012) | 247 | ||
Where next? | 248 | ||
Acknowledgements | 248 | ||
Notes | 248 | ||
References | 249 | ||
12 | How Was It for You?Pleasure and Performance in Sex Work | 251 | ||
Giving pleasure | 252 | ||
Getting pleasure | 254 | ||
Pleasure and power | 258 | ||
Sharing pleasure | 261 | ||
Conclusion | 262 | ||
Notes | 263 | ||
References | 263 | ||
13 | Eroticism, Sensuality and ‘Women’s Secrets’ among the Baganda | 265 | ||
Ssenga: past and present | 267 | ||
‘Mortar-pestle dialogues’: metaphorically speaking | 272 | ||
Gender/sexuality non-conformity: poking holes in patriarchy | 274 | ||
The cultural labia | 278 | ||
Eroticism and sexual etiquette in the marital chamber | 280 | ||
Concluding remarks | 282 | ||
Acknowledgements | 283 | ||
Notes | 283 | ||
References | 284 | ||
14 | Laughter, the Subversive Body Organ | 286 | ||
Up against the soap operas | 286 | ||
Discovering laughter | 287 | ||
Learning with the body | 288 | ||
Reflecting lives in stories | 290 | ||
A missing link to empowerment | 291 | ||
The anatomy of pleasure: part of the human story | 292 | ||
Laughter reveals, but also heals | 294 | ||
About the Contributors | 296 | ||
Index | 301 |