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Abstract
A Holocaust survivor whose mother collapsed and died only moments after they both registered as survivors, a death row inmate who has reclaimed his life through Buddhism, and a mother whose daughter was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer two days before her thirtieth birthday, among others, offer their perspectives on death and dying in this thought-provoking volume. Contributors from all walks of life share their thoughts on carefully selected writings, images and artwork that most accurately express death to them. Describing their unique experiences, they reveal that, beyond the heartache and the mystery, death teaches us all invaluable lessons about how we live our lives.
Offering comfort, reassurance and varied insights into death, loss and its impact on life, this collection is for anyone who might be coming to terms with this inevitable destination. Royalty proceeds from the book will be donated to Ashgate Hospicecare, North Derbyshire, UK.
We experience death in many ways before facing it in our own lives. Whatever will support us to consider death more honestly and life more appreciatively is to be deeply valued. Rosalind Bradley's beautiful collection offers both those gifts abundantly.
Stephanie Dowrick, author of Seeking the Sacred
Rosalind Bradley was born and raised in the UK but has lived in Sydney, Australia for over 30 years. She has taught in Papua New Guinea and is currently a Council Member of Eremos, a forum for exploring spirituality in Australia and a volunteer biographer at a local hospice. Rosalind has previously edited two anthologies of inter-faith prayers, A World of Prayer and Mosaic.
A powerful book on the truth of our mortality, and the richness that can be derived from our encounter with death.
Roshi Joan Halifax, Abbot,
Upaya Zen Center
A Matter of Life and Death provides thought provoking reflections from a wide range of people whose lives have been deeply influenced by encounters with dying, death and loss. Their insights into these sensitive, often taboo, subjects are inspirational and uplifting - highly recommend reading for all who work in end of life or bereavement care.
Dr Marilyn Relf, Bereavement Care Lead, Sir Michael Sobell House, Oxford and Chair National Bereavement Alliance (UK)
I rejoice that death has become less of a taboo subject in our conversations. In this timely book you will discover precious wisdom and heartfelt insights from people of all walks of life...As I have listened to these voices, I have found reassurance and enlightenment. I know this book will offer the same gifts to you whether you believe in a transition to a new life or contemplate the beyond with some uncertainty. I commend it highly.
from the foreword by Archbishop Emeritus Desmond Tutu
This is a powerful and timely book on the largely taboo subject of death, viewing it as an intrinsic and unavoidable part of life.
Bradley provides Readers with a useful resource to assist in their duties of taking funerals and memorial services and in caring for those who mourn. Highly recommended.
John Hazel
The Reader
A thoughtful collection of personal stories and perspectives on death as a defining part of life. Beautifully told and cleverly presented. A unique offering on an ultimate truth - you will be inspired, intrigued, informed and touched by the diversity and authenticity of the contributions.
Professor Christine Bennett AO, Dean of Medicine,The University of Notre Dame Australia
Dying conjures many stories, many feelings, many fears. Rosalind Bradley brings together the thoughts of the eminent, the well trained and also those who have personal experience with the dying. These stories explore the inspiring, the meaningful and sometimes troubled ideas that everyone will have about death.
Professor Richard Chye, University of Notre Dame, Australia
Table of Contents
Section Title | Page | Action | Price |
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A Matter of Life and Death: 60 Voices Share Their Wisdom by Rosalind Bradley | 3 | ||
Foreword | 13 | ||
Copyright Acknowledgements | 15 | ||
Acknowledgements | 19 | ||
Introduction | 21 | ||
Part 1 - Personal Encounters with Death | 25 | ||
Gail O’Brien, Non-Executive Director, Chris O’Brien Lifehouse; physiotherapist, Australia | 27 | ||
Brigadier Michael Griffiths CBE, Retired army officer, Duke of Lancaster’s Regiment; police officer, UK | 30 | ||
Olga Horak OAM, Holocaust survivor; volunteer Survivor Guide, Sydney Jewish Museum, Australia | 34 | ||
Colleen Kelly, Co-founder, September 11th Families for Peaceful Tomorrows, USA | 38 | ||
Professor Patrick McGorry AO, Professor of Youth Mental Health, University of Melbourne; Australian of the Year 2010, Australia | 40 | ||
The Burton–Gaudiosi Family | 45 | ||
Bella Gaudiosi - Both parents died when she was 12 years old; now ‘adopted’ into the Burton family | 46 | ||
Tamika Burton - Her father died when she was ten years old | 47 | ||
Amit Dasgupta, Former diplomat; author and photographer, India | 48 | ||
Erica Stewart, Bereavement Support Services Manager, Sands (Stillbirth and neonatal death charity), UK | 52 | ||
Kinny Gardner, Director, Krazy Kat Theatre Company, UK | 55 | ||
Pam Masini, Tertiary in the Third Order of Franciscans; Bereavement Support Worker, Child Bereavement UK; textile artist, UK | 58 | ||
Reverend Peter Pereira, Uniting Church minister and counsellor, Australia | 61 | ||
Mitchell Willoughby, Death row inmate, USA | 64 | ||
Further Verses | 67 | ||
Part 2 - Death Brings Us Wisdom | 69 | ||
Josefine Speyer, Psychotherapist; death education specialist; Co-founder, Natural Death Centre, UK | 71 | ||
Jennifer Briscoe-Hough, Community project innovator; community funeral celebrant, Australia | 74 | ||
Reverend Canon Rosie Harper, Vicar of Great Missenden; Chaplain to the Bishop of Buckingham; General Synod member, UK | 77 | ||
Molly Carlile AM, Deathtalker®; palliative care activist, Australia | 80 | ||
Dr Michael Barbato OAM, Former palliative care physician; leader of courses on death midwifery, Australia | 83 | ||
Professor Allan Kellehear, Author; medical and public health sociologist; Professor of End of Life Care, University of Bradford, UK | 86 | ||
Rabbi Jonathan Wittenberg, Rabbi of the New North London Synagogue; Senior Rabbi, Masorti Judaism, UK | 89 | ||
Laurence Freeman OSB, Benedictine monk; Director, World Community for Christian Meditation, UK | 91 | ||
Carol Komaromy, Senior Lecturer in Health Studies and honorary Research Associate, Open University, UK | 93 | ||
Dom Christian de Chergé OCSO, French Trappist monk, murdered in Algeria in 1996 | 97 | ||
Sogyal Rinpoche, Tibet Buddhist teacher and author; Spiritual Director of Rigpa, France/Tibet | 99 | ||
Therese Schroeder-Sheker, International concert and recording artist; clinician and educator; Academic Dean of the Chalice of Repose Project, School of Music-Thanatology, USA | 103 | ||
Further Verses | 107 | ||
Part 3 - Working Closely with Death | 109 | ||
Deborah de Wilde OAM , Obstetric social worker and former midwife, Australia | 111 | ||
Diane Roche, Intensive Care Unit Chaplain, Royal North Shore Hospital, Australia | 115 | ||
Arabella Dorman, War artist and portrait artist, UK | 117 | ||
Dr Megory Anderson, Anglican theologian and author; Founder, Sacred Dying Foundation, USA | 119 | ||
Dr Peter Saul, Intensive care unit doctor,\n John Hunter Hospital, Australia | 122 | ||
Stephen Olson, Executive Director, Royal Oak Burial Park, Canada | 125 | ||
Dr Soren Blau, Senior forensic anthropologist, Victoria, Australia | 128 | ||
Dr Irene Adams, Oncologist and immunologist; Founder, Clínica Ammor, Brazil | 131 | ||
Dr Louise Jordan, GP and Senior Partner, Baslow Health Centre; Founding Trustee, Helen’s Trust, UK | 134 | ||
Su Chard, Independent funeral celebrant, UK | 136 | ||
James Norris, Founder, DeadSocial.org and the Digital Legacy Association, UK | 138 | ||
Chinyere Inyama, Senior coroner, UK | 141 | ||
Further Verses | 142 | ||
Part 4 - Death and the Circle of Life | 143 | ||
Sughra Ahmed, Chair, Islamic Society of Britain; Senior Programmes Manager, Woolf Institute, UK | 145 | ||
Dr Sarah Edelman, Clinical psychologist; President, Dying with Dignity NSW, Australia | 148 | ||
Trypheyna McShane, Art therapist, storyteller and author, Australia | 151 | ||
Stephen Miller, Obituary writer, USA | 154 | ||
Dr Ian Gawler OAM, Buddhist cancer survivor; pioneer in mind/body medicine, Australia | 156 | ||
Amelia Freelander, Media team, Amnesty International Australia, Australia | 159 | ||
Claire Henry MBE, Chief Executive, National Council for Palliative Care and the Dying Matters Coalition, England, Wales and Northern Ireland, UK | 162 | ||
Dr Colin Murray Parkes OBE, Consultant Psychiatrist, St Christopher’s Hospice; Life President, Cruse Bereavement Care, UK | 164 | ||
The Reverend Jonathan \nWoodhouse CB, Baptist minister; former Chaplain‑General of the British Army, UK | 166 | ||
Caitlin Doughty, Mortician; Founder, Order of the Good Death, USA | 169 | ||
Bruce Kent, Peace activist; Vice-President, Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament and Pax Christi UK, UK | 171 | ||
Further Verses | 173 | ||
Part 5 - Death Is Sacred | 175 | ||
Dr Pushpa Bhardwaj-Wood, Hindu interfaith practitioner, New Zealand | 177 | ||
Sharifah Zuriah Aljeffri, Artist and social activist, Malaysia | 179 | ||
Sr Jayanti, European Director, Brahma Kumaris; peace emissary, UK | 182 | ||
Bhai Sahib Bhai (Dr) Mohinder Singh Ahluwalia, Religious Leader and chair, Guru Nanak Nishkam Sewak Jatha (GNNSJ), UK | 185 | ||
Peter Shine, Gomeroi Aboriginal man from New South Wales; Director of Aboriginal Health, Northern Sydney Local Health District, Australia | 189 | ||
Rabbi Sylvia Rothschild, Community rabbi; author; specialist in preparing liturgies for end-of-life experiences, UK | 193 | ||
Dr Doreen Tembo, Research consultant in public health, UK | 196 | ||
Reverend Marta Benavides , Christian social justice activist, El Salvador | 199 | ||
Dr Frank Brennan, Palliative Care specialist, \nCalvary Hospital, Australia | 202 | ||
Bahiyyih Nakhjavani, Bahá’i, author and teacher, France | 206 | ||
Woris Kubo, Village elder and magistrate, Papua New Guinea | 208 | ||
Venerable Thubten Chodron, Tibetan Buddhist nun; Founder and Abbess, Sravasti Abbey, USA | 210 | ||
Ela Gandhi, Peace and social activist, South Africa | 212 | ||
Further Verses | 214 | ||
Postscript | 217 | ||
Ashgate Hospicecare | 221 | ||
References | 223 | ||
Contributor Index | 229 |