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Counselling and Psychotherapy for Families in Times of Illness and Death

Counselling and Psychotherapy for Families in Times of Illness and Death

Jenny Altschuler

(2011)

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Abstract

Living with serious illness can have profound emotional effects both on patients themselves and on those close to them. With clarity and compassion, this text explores the difficulties and dilemmas those who are ill and their families face, offering specific guidelines for the professionals who work with them.
Building on its successful first edition, this text draws on recent developments in research and clinical practice in providing a theoretical and practical framework for working with illness. Thoroughly revised in its second edition, this book:
• Features new chapters on the cultural constructs of illness, working with migrant families, illness in later life, death and palliative care and supervision
• Explores issues of working with diversity, covering gender, class, race and sexuality
• Discusses the impact of working with those facing serious illness on health care professionals, offering strategies for reducing the risks of burnout, compassion fatigue and secondary traumatisation
Written by a recognized expert in the field, this innovative and challenging book provides essential insights for professionals working or training to work with those facing illness and death, including doctors, nurses, counsellors, psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers.
JENNY ALTSCHULER is a Consultant Clinical psychologist and Family Psychotherapist. She formerly worked at the Tavistock Clinic, where she set up the first UK multi-disciplinary family based training for professionals working in health care settings. She is now Clinical Director of the One to One Children's Fund and also works as an independent psychotherapist and supervisor to health professionals.
The book is erudite, thoughtful, compassionate, well-researched and full of practical and philosophical suggestions that may hlep the patient, carer and professional find a more useful and meaningful way to navigate the bewildering world of illness and death. I recommend it whole-heartedly' - Therapy Today

 

'...succinct and clear...with practical advice and guidance for practitioners written in a sensitive and compassionate manner from a highly regarded expert in the field...an innovative and remarkable book that is essential reading for groups of professionals regularly encountering the challenges involved in this type of work and those who may come across it less frequently and need an authoritative text to refer to.' - Dr Gill Goodwillie, The Journal of Psychological Therapies in Primary Care


Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Cover Cover
Contents v
Acknowledgements v
1 Introduction 1
Introduction to systemic theory 3
How do systems work? 6
Changes in membership and structure of the system 8
Collaborative care and differences in clinical roles 10
Summary 13
2 The Impact of Illness and Disability on Families 14
Shared and individual experiences of loss 15
Blame and responsibility 18
Ambiguities in family boundaries 20
Challenges that relate to the condition in question 21
Challenges associated with the treatment 23
The course of the condition 25
Age and the life cycle of the family 28
The impact of illness on communication 30
Summary 31
3 Applying Systemic Ideas to Health Care 32
Setting the context and agreeing on the contract of work 33
Developing hypotheses 34
Pacing 35
Bringing less noticed aspects of experience to the fore 36
Questions that open up alternative ways of thinking 38
Challenging narratives of blame 40
Normalizing the disruptive impact of illness 43
Reworking family boundaries 44
Disentangling illness from who one ‘really’ is 45
Linking the present and the past 46
When the condition is terminal 48
Summary 49
4 Childhood and Adolescent Experiences of Illness 51
Age and understanding 51
Verbal and non-verbal communication 55
Childhood illness 56
When a brother or sister is seriously ill 58
When a parent is seriously ill 60
Working with children at times of particular difficulty 62
Group work 64
Schools: an underutilized resource 65
Summary 68
5 Parenting in the Face of Illness 69
On parenting an ill child 70
Coming to terms with loss 71
Questions of responsibility and blame 72
Monitoring and vigilance 73
Mothering, fathering and couple relationships 75
Relationships with extended family and friends 77
On being an ill parent 78
Balancing self-care with caring for others 79
Questions of blame and guilt 80
Supporting parents facing illness 81
Summary 83
6 Illness and Adult Relationships 85
Age and changes in the family life course 86
Disruptions to patterns of intimacy 88
Sexual intimacy 90
Health status, power and dependency 92
Gendered experiences of care 94
Same-sex relationships 95
Being ill when living alone 97
When adults need more intensive support 99
Summary 100
7 Illness in Later Life 102
Social attitudes towards aging and illness 103
Challenges that are distinct to later life 104
Challenges to parent–child relationships 107
Challenges to couple relationships 108
Intervening at times of difficulty 110
Transitions to residential care 113
Summary 115
8 Death, Bereavement and Living Beyond Loss 117
On moving from curative to palliative care 118
Helping families mourn and move on 122
Child and adolescent bereavement 126
Attending to grief at school 130
Spirituality 131
Summary 133
9 Migration, Culture and Experiences of Diversity 134
Migration 134
When a migrant becomes ill 135
Illness and those who are ‘left behind’ 137
Language and the use of interpreters 139
Cultural diversity and exposure to prejudice 143
Summary 148
10 Personal–Professional Aspects of Health Care 149
Potential sources of stress 149
Shifts in practice and policy 151
Ambiguities in roles and responsibilities 152
Maintaining ‘professional’ boundaries 153
Disentangling the personal and professional 154
On caring for the carers 157
Supervision 158
The structure and process of supervision 159
Challenges supervisees often raise 161
Challenges supervisors tend to face 163
Power and prejudice 164
Summary 167
Appendix 169
Endnotes 170
References 172
Index 187