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The Relationship Paradigm

The Relationship Paradigm

Godfrey Barrett-Lennard

(2013)

Abstract

In this important new book, Godfrey Barrett-Lennard challenges the individualist focus of traditionalist psychology by proposing that the human condition is basically relational and interdependent. Rich in depth and scope, The Relationship Paradigm explores relationship systems over an absorbing COLLEGE of multiple connections. This includes relations within the self, interpersonal relationships, relationships between and within communities, organizations and nations, and relationships with animals. There is a chapter on relations in war. The result is a sophisticated account of the complex weave of human relationships, providing counselors and other professionals who work with people with a foundation of thought that will offer fresh insights both for practice and the search for new knowledge.

Combining new ideas with practice principles and illustrations, this is a book of rare value for students, practitioners and research enquirers.

Godfrey Barrett-Lennard's PhD is from the University of Chicago. He has a long association with Murdoch, University, Western Australia, where he is Adjunct Professor in the School of Health Professions. He holds an honorary doctorate from Murdoch and is namesake to the Godfrey Barrett-Lennard Counsellor Training Centre there.


Offering fresh and original thought, this book explores the relational interdependence of the human condition on many levels
'Godfrey Barrett-Lennard is not only one of the pioneers of the person-centred approach, but also one of its great visionaries. In this vibrant and engaging new text, Goff unfolds a map of our relational worlds: providing counsellors and psychotherapists with a deepened understanding of the intra- and inter-personal forces that can drive psychological wellbeing and distress.' - Mick Cooper, Professor of Counselling, University of Strathclyde, UK

'The Relationship Paradigm presents a unique understanding of what it means to be human. Readers will find themselves contemplating the book's messages throughout their daily life, at unexpected times, and in ways that will enrich their lives.'- Jeffrey H. D. Cornelius-White, Professor of Counseling, Missouri State University, US

'Occasionally, we turn a corner that we didn't even see, to reveal a new landscape that also transforms the view over our shoulder. In The Relationship Paradigm, the lifetime journey of Godfrey Barrett-Lennard illuminates the sometimes invisible warp of relationship as instrumentally and irrevocably interwoven with the weft of seemingly individual lives.'- Corinne Reid, Associate Professor, School of Psychology, Murdoch University, Western Australia


'In this wonderful and original book Barrett-Lennard presents a novel paradigm for understanding human affairs. He proposes a comprehensive scheme for understanding relationships - from primary relationships such as couples and parent-child, on to family relationships, on to community, and on to national and international relationships. The book presents a deep vision of the human being as fluidly and finely interconnected not only with others but with the world. He develops the implications of this for how we understand such things as consciousness, the sense of self, psychopathology, war, and genocide. Barrett-Lennard's call is for us to recognize how finely interconnected we are in order to better our lives and save the planet. A novel, original, and new work from one of the greats in the person-centered tradition.'- Art Bohart, Professor Emeritus, California State University, Dominguez Hills

 
'This is a really comprehensive, careful, and systematic characterization of relationships! I'm filled with awe when sensing the attention, care, and quality of fresh thought that must have gone into forming and presenting all the phenomena constituting the relationship paradigm. As a researcher I'm enchanted by the thoughtful proposal and deep insight communicated through the chapter on research paths. They will influence my students' and my paths. We are more than grateful for this, and to the author for offering his own unique relationship through this ground-breaking book!'- Renate Motschnig, Professor at the Faculty of Computer Science, University of Vienna, Austria

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Cover Cover
Contents v
Preface viii
Part I: Human Relationship: Nature and Domain 1
1 The Idea and Variety of Human Relationships 3
On the Basic Nature of Human Relationships 4
Relationship Differences in Experience 7
The Full Spectrum of Human Relationships – A Preview 9
In Conclusion: Defining Relationship 12
2 Intricate Relations Within the Person-Organism 14
The Human Organism as a Union of Living Systems 14
The Emergent Multi-Self 16
Wholeness and Health of Persons and Relationships 18
Conclusion 21
3 The Diverse Self In and From Relationship 22
The Reality of Self-Diversity: Five Kinds of Evidence 22
The Yin and Yang of Self and Relationship 32
Loneliness and the Self 33
The Relational Self in Big Systems 35
Conclusion 36
Part II: Human Distress and the Working of Systems 39
4 Psychopathology or Disturbed Relationship? On Suffering, Disorder and Being Well 41
Contexts of Relationship Distress 42
Re-envisioning 'Psychopathology' 45
A Modified Perspective on Wellness 52
Conclusion 53
5 How Does Influence Work in Complex Relational Systems? 55
'Cause', Influence and Contingent Events in Human and Other Systems 55
Process and Influence Within Relationships and Between Them 59
Relational System Stability, Shifts and Prediction 61
Conclusion 65
Part III: Unfolding the Worlds of Relationship 67
6 Distinguishing Kinds of Relationship: An Ordering Scheme 69
Process and Structure in Little to Very Large Relationship Systems 69
The Realm of Human Relationships: An Ordering of Kinds 74
Positioning Relationships on the Two Axes: Illustrations 80
Conclusion: Glimpses of Reader Application and Potential Research 84
7 Community as Relationship and Vicissitudes of Belonging 85
Origins and Variety in the Becoming of Communities 85
Community Experience and Health in Contemporary Mobile Societies 87
Community Life in Transition 88
Recovery and Transformation of Threatened Communities 90
Qualities of Community Strength and Wellness 92
Conclusion 93
8 Large Organizations as Systemic Worlds of Relationship 95
Organizations as Generators and Custodians of Relationship 96
Relationships in Systems Centred on Outcomes 98
Take-Home Effects of Organizational Life 99
Organizations as Human Habitats: Qualities and Health 100
Organizational Transformation and Change 103
Conclusion: Impact and Responsibility 104
9 Relationships in War and Genocide 106
Deciphering Big-System Inner–Outer Tensions Leading on to War 107
Difficult Paths to Peace: Terminating Wars and Genocide 111
Toward a Relational Approach to Healing from Wars and Genocide 117
Conclusion 122
10 The Shared World of Human–Animal Relations 124
Humans in the Larger Scheme of Things 124
The Different Modes of Human Relationship with Non-Human Beings 125
Relations Between Humans and Other Species as a Pivotal Axis of Life 138
Conclusion 140
Part IV: Research and the New Paradigm 143
11 Researching Relationships: From the Plural Self to Big Systems 145
What Kinds of Research are Useful or Problematic in this Complex Region? 145
Research Paths: Intra-Personal to International 151
Conclusion 163
12 Summing Up: The New Paradigm as a Way Forward 164
The Basic Understanding 164
Human Subjectivity Within a Systemic Relational Perspective 166
A View of the New Paradigm in Current Essence 167
Conclusion: What If? 169
References 171
Index 183