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Working with Bereavement

Working with Bereavement

Janet Wilson

(2014)

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Abstract

A practical guide for those who work with the bereaved in a variety of settings, from nurses and social workers to volunteers. Covering ethics, cultural issues and support networks, an essential text for those seeking to build understanding and skills in order to offer better support to the dying and the bereaved.
Working with bereavement is an excellent practical guide that covers a vast array of subject matter from theories of bereavement, working with bereavement to hard to talk about deaths.' Ibadete Fetahu, Nursing Times
Janet Lynn Wilson is a Senior Lecturer in Nursing at Sheffield Hallam University, UK. She has worked for over 30 years as a healthcare professional. She is also a psychotherapist with many years' experience as a counsellor, group facilitator and supervisor of those involved in supporting the bereaved. She has recently completed research into nursing staff responses to patient death and has published papers on this and related topics.

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Cover Cover
Contents vii
List of Figures xi
Acknowledgements xii
Introduction 1
Terms used in the book 1
A note about myself 2
The book's structure 2
1 Theories of Bereavement 4
Introduction 4
Freud: mourning and melancholia 5
Lindemann: acute grief and rituals 6
Kübler-Ross: stages of loss 7
Bowlby: attachment theory 9
Murray Parkes: phases of grief 10
Worden: the four tasks of mourning 10
Stroebe and Schut: dual process model 12
Walter: biography 14
Klass, Silverman and Nickman: continuing bonds 15
Neimeyer: Reconstructing meaning 15
Stokes: resilience 16
Pictures and diagrams 17
Conclusion 20
Key points 21
Further Reading 21
2 Working with Bereavement 22
Introduction 22
A good death 22
Communication skills 24
Pre-bereavement support 27
At the time of death 29
The time following the death 31
Working creatively 40
Conclusion 40
Key points 41
Further Reading 41
3 Practical and Professional Issues in Supporting the Bereaved 42
Introduction 42
Support, counselling and psychotherapy: the difference 42
Different approaches to counselling and psychotherapy 44
The therapeutic relationship 46
Counselling and psychotherapy regulation 48
Choosing the type of help 48
The room 49
Boundaries 56
Number of sessions 58
Individual and group support 59
Conclusion 62
Key points 63
Further Reading 63
4 Culture, Faith and Spirituality 64
Introduction 64
Traditional funerals 67
Secular society 67
Contemporary Irish society 68
Christian 69
Buddhist 70
Hindu 71
Humanist 73
Jewish 73
Muslim 75
Contemporary practices 76
Matters to consider 77
Conclusion 80
Key Points 80
Further Reading 80
5 Differing Perspectives of Grief 82
Introduction 82
The impact of age 82
Death of a parent 83
Death of a spouse or partner 84
Multiple deaths 85
Celebrity death 85
Roadside memorials 86
Complex family relationships 87
Complicated grief 88
The medicalization of grief 90
Grief and time 91
Specific behaviours that may result from grief 94
Conclusion 97
Key points 98
Further Reading 98
6 Sudden and Traumatic Death 99
Introduction 99
Sudden and traumatic death 99
Issues resulting from sudden and traumatic death 109
Conclusion 115
Key points 116
Further Reading 116
7 Hard to Talk About Deaths 117
Introduction 117
Miscarriage 117
Stillbirth 119
Neonatal death 121
Termination 123
Death of a child 124
The impact of grief on the family 125
Suicide 127
Conclusion 135
Key points 135
Further Reading 135
8 Unrecognized Grief 137
Introduction 137
Disenfranchised grief 137
Learning disability 142
HIV and AIDS 145
Dementia 147
Conclusion 150
Key points 151
Further Reading 151
9 Self-care When Working with the Bereaved 152
Introduction 152
Emotional labour 152
Vicarious trauma 154
Emotional intelligence 156
Coping strategies 157
Features affecting practitioner responses to their work 159
Self-care strategies and systems 160
Conclusion 165
Key points 166
Further Reading 166
Sources of Information and Support 167
References 171
Index 181