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Couple Therapy

Couple Therapy

Jim Crawley | Jan Grant

(2007)

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Abstract

This book presents students and experienced practitioners alike with an accessible guide on the complex dynamics of the couple relationship. Combining the theoretical grounding of various psychodynamic fields of thought with vivid case studies, it advises on how to address issues such as domestic violence, affairs and the step-family system.
JIM CRAWLEY is a private practitioner of psychoanalytic psychotherapy in Western Australia. He was inaugural president of the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA); a senior lecturer teaching on the Master of Social Science (Counselling) course, at Edith Cowan University, Perth; and the executive director of the Marriage Guidance Council of Western Australia (now Relationships Australia WA). He is co-author of Transference and Projection: mirrors to the self and author of Couple Therapy in Australia: issues emerging from practice.

JAN GRANT is programme director of the Masters and PhD programmes in Counselling at Curtin University of Technology, Western Australia, and has a private psychotherapy practice. She is a member of the MA26 of Counselling Psychologists, APS, and is a past president of SCAPE. She is co-author of Transference and Projection: mirrors to the self and co-editor of Australian Journal of Counselling Psychology.
'Crawley and Grant have produced an excellent book on couple therapy...Experienced therapists will gain a lot from this book and those considering couple work training will find it an essential read.' Angela Cooper, Therapy Today

Table of Contents

Section Title Page Action Price
Cover Cover
Contents vii
Acknowledgements ix
Introduction 1
1 The Psychodynamics of the Couple Relationship: Object Relations Theory 6
Underlying principles of psychodynamic approaches to couples 7
Object relations approaches to couple therapy 11
Conclusion 23
2 The Psychodynamics of the Couple Relationship: Self Psychology, Intersubjectivity, and Attachment Theory 24
Empathic immersion 24
Selfobject experiences and transferences 25
Narcissistic vulnerability, injury, and rage 27
Intersubjectivity 29
Treatment goals 30
Attachment theory and couple therapy 32
Love and the relational approaches 37
Conclusion 39
3 Thinking Systemically About the Couple 40
Introduction 40
Some important family systems concepts 40
Bowen Theory 48
Relationship systems across time 57
Conclusion 64
4 But What About Love? 66
Introduction 66
Emotion in the couple relationship 67
Sexuality and couple therapy 72
Conclusion 80
5 Assessment 81
Getting started: Engagement or assessment? 81
The content of assessment: A five-dimensional framework 83
The structure of the assessment phase 86
The process of assessment 90
Conclusion 98
6 Technique 99
The centrality of the therapeutic relationship: Creating 'an island of safety' 99
Conducting the conjoint session 103
Conclusion 113
7 Therapeutic Process 114
Stages of therapy 114
Who do we talk to? Individual versus conjoint sessions 117
What do therapist and couple talk about in the conjoint session? 120
… and how do we talk about it? 122
Conclusion 131
8 The Dynamics of Presenting Problems 132
Domestic violence 132
Affairs 139
The re-married couple with stepchildren 147
The polarized couple 149
Conclusion 152
Epilogue: Surviving as Couple Therapist 153
Research and couple therapy 153
Ethical considerations in couple therapy 158
Supervision and personal therapy for the couple therapist 162
Conclusion 164
References 165
Index 177